Teach you through the “psychologically shady” people in the workplace
Some people, no matter how good-looking they are, they are extremely unhealthy inside. They can’t tolerate the happiness of others. As long as you are happier than him, he must torture you.
I was thinking, why is this?
It turns out that such a person is a “patient” and a serious “dark mental” patient.
First, dark minds are for everyone, mainly from heredity.
Objectively speaking, human nature is flawed, and there is no such thing as a person who has no trace of dark mind.
For example, jealousy and revenge are the dark sides of human emotions.
When others have better grades or performance than us, and when others like others more than me, who has never been jealous?
Who has not twitched occasionally after being mocked, deceived, humiliated, and ignored?
Some people think that the dark mind is a person’s conduct and quality issues. In fact, this understanding is not comprehensive.
Psychologists are now generally inclined to the view that dark psychology is inherent in human genetic genes, mainly derived from heredity.
Generally speaking, people with dark minds have potential “aggressive” personality traits.
Most people can understand the dark minds of others, but never pay attention to their dark minds.
Few people think about their dark minds, even those who are so dark and poisonous.
Most people don’t have strong self-esteem. That’s why. The dark psychology that has been placed on the human level for a long time will be deeply dormant in the heart, waiting for the trigger from the outside world!
The medium that triggers a dark psychological attack is usually one or more specific events, many of which are accidental events.
Moreover, most people ‘s dark psychology stays at the level of thought and emotion. Very few dark psychology are suppressed or subdued when they pass through the two levels of moral conscience and risk estimation. They are not implemented in action and hurt others.Neutral, useless and harmless.
When the dark mood is serious to a certain degree, coupled with some ill-intentioned people provoking alienation, and their own self-confidence is not strong, a strong sense of crisis will form a sinister psychology. Therefore, he is a “sinister person””He will do irrational things.
Be sure to launch a “coup”.
This is what we often see on the surface. In this way, marriage changes, personnel accidents, frequent changes in the middle leadership, etc. occur around people, and it becomes unreasonable. No one can understand it. The result of the change is worse than before.worse.
This situation has intensified this person’s “dark mind”, and he will desperately defend the mistake, even the obsessive-compulsive disorder.
That would seriously hurt the people around.
Therefore, “sinister people” are incompetent, and “sinister people” fight with others, play with people, treat people as fun, do nothing wrong, change from day to day, impermanence, management confusion, and only focus on some superficial things, but there is no practical operation.Because the superficial things are made by his hands, he can use them to appreciate and comfort his lonely and dark heart.
But the actual operation requires strong quality and good teamwork spirit, which he can’t do.
Once such a person in the team can help him realize this wish, his “shady mind” will also torture such a capable person by relying on the “cold violence” first.
However, the dark mind is “not helpful and harmless” as compared to others. For the self with dark mind, it is harmful or beneficial, and a detailed analysis is needed.
“Dark mind” is different from “conspiracy”. People with dark mind may not have conspiracy.
However, to release the accumulated mental energy of the dark mind, conspiracy must be passed. Therefore, it can be inferred that those who are good at conspiracy (except professional soldiers or war criminals) must be those with a larger dark mind area.
Although the dark mind is inconceivable by most people, through conspiracy, they still have many successful examples. Ancient, modern, Chinese and foreign, it can even be said that they are innumerable.
The premise is that such people have certain powers.
For example, one Monday, when I entered the office with a smile on my face, someone rolled my eyes and asked me, “Why are you so happy?
“I said without a second thought:” Because the week is about to begin, I want to give my people a happy week. Besides, when I see my boss again, how can I look like a bitter gourd.
“We must show weakness in front of men. This is an unwritten rule in the workplace, so I added a sentence:” A woman, is beautiful because of happiness. You must first coax yourself to make others happy too. ”
An unnecessary “overcast disaster” is over, but when I get home at night, I find things awkward during the day.
Why is this person like this?
It’s better to have more happy smiles in the office than frowning.
So I wrote an article “Women’s Happiness is a Power” and posted it on my blog to drive away the unhappiness of the day and encourage myself to be a happy woman.
In fact, in today’s world, everyone is under a lot of work pressure. It’s not easy to maintain a happy and sunny mood.
But when I am the editor-in-chief, I have to adjust my mentality and lead the team due to the pressure and exemplary role in my work. ”Dark mind” is a psychological normal, not a mental illness, but if you suddenly get up, there is a great possibility of self-injury and injury.
People with a heavy and dark mind may develop schizophrenia if they continue to develop.
Because the dark mind actually has both the initial characteristics of autism, obsessive-compulsive disorder (especially “compulsive thinking”), and schizophrenia.
People with dark minds are more conscious and conscious.
If it is possible to keep the dark mind at the level of consciousness and thought, it depends on the willpower to prevent the action under the control of the dark mind.
However, if a person has a serious dark mood and finds a chance to release, his heart is jealous and inexplicable hatred. In the long run, it is entirely possible to cause mental illness and eventually affect physical health!
The dark mind is indeed not easy to identify, because this mind is often hidden deeply, otherwise it will not be considered “dark”.
As the saying goes: “The eyes are the windows of the soul.
“If you want to see if the people around you are dark, you can patiently observe the expressions of some people’s eyes and facial muscles when you have a good thing.
It is difficult for a dark person to share the joy of success and the satisfaction of harvesting because of a broken heart and chest.
When you encounter something good, he feels lost and unnatural.
He will sneer at it, and will seem to be casually tearing your scars to reveal your weaknesses.
For example: What good thing did you do for him and help him solve a big problem? He wo n’t thank you sincerely, and he wo n’t have a happy expression because he thinks you are better than him. He still usesThe stinging words and weird tone make you feel that you have done something wrong and you owe him something.
He will say eloquently: “I’m afraid you’ll have a tail.
“Even at some wine tables in response to the banquet, he would not sincerely praise and praise others, so that the meal was eaten like cheesy wax.
At this time, you will be puzzled. Because of the difference in the social level, you do not exist to compete with him for glory, and you wo n’t even threaten a part of him.Praise yourself indirectly, praising your people is the most rewarding way to do more with less risk.
But the shadowy person just can’t do it, it just makes you feel as uncomfortable as a small knife being cut.
Second, what is “dark mind”?
How to identify people with “dark minds”?
Due to the variety and types of dark psychology in human nature, this definition seems difficult, and it can only describe the dark psychology.
Personally, I feel that the “dark mind” is generally not good to others, and good things in the world.
When I see others better than myself, I feel uncomfortable.
Third, distorted personality traits of people with severe shadowy psychology, and imitation of their attack strategies.
Insidious people are poor, because the sun cannot penetrate their hearts.
Their atriums are dark, and the surroundings are dim, and they are always tortured by those unseen mentalities.
In these people’s psychological space, they are full of envy, resentment, jealousy, hatred, disappointment and even despair.
These chaotic emotions are lingering in the heart, distributing each of their nerves.
They horribly hate the outstanding performance and success of others, and even hate the smoothness and happiness of others. They cannot tolerate others to be better than him and do everything possible to hinder others’ success.
People with severe dark minds are often insidious, poisonous, barbarous, and cruel, trying to stigmatize others, mock others, and humiliate others to achieve the goal of distracting the attacker’s focus on his career and disintegrate the attacker’s fighting spirit.The attacker was ruined!
Darkness mainly comes from jealousy, which is often the inducement for their aggressive actions.
The object of jealousy is usually a specific specific person related to their own stakeholders, but there is also a kind of general jealousy, that is, jealous of people or individuals who are related to their own uncertainty, even in the slightest.
For example, the “Yanzhaomen” incident has caused some people to criticize Chen Guanxi’s style in the entertainment industry, the performing arts circle, and actually imply envy for their personal happiness and freedom.
Insidious people must have their unspeakable purposes when they do evil deeds, so they are often alone.
Because not many people follow him conscientiously, and bear the risks and stigmatization of bad behavior.
In order to bluff, they often involve Zhang Sanli, Wang Wang, Zhao Zhao and Liu Liu in an attempt to prove that it is not one person’s prejudice, but a “consensus” of many people.
When the truth is revealed, people will find that he has always been turning to a “group” of virtual people and fighting alone. At least, he has been the mastermind of out of nothing incidents that few people have responded to.
For example: he would say that many people in the unit say that you are bad, and we did not believe it at first, but it turned out to be true.
He will use the power in his hands, so that people in the unit will not dare to ignore you, even people around you will not dare to ignore you, and prove that his conspiracy is correct. Even when he implements the conspiracy, he will say that this is a bureau.This is the pressure from one side, this is not his original intention, he will cause him to promise that the truth of what happened, thereby delaying time.
He is more afraid of you telling the truth. He pointed out that wrong judgments are like “covering the ears”.
People with insidious mentality often work hard outside, inferiority, worry, and contradiction, so they are both incompetent and cowardly.They are extremely reluctant to admit that they are inferior to others, but they also love face.
They didn’t dare to obstruct them directly, they could only hide in the dark and let the dark arrows hurt people.
Because they know that this fact is disgraceful, they dare not attack directly, and it is impossible to repeat examples to prove that his attacks are often anonymous, and they can only use some vague words that may or may not be libelous and malicious.Wounded and deliberately irritated.
People with dark minds often use the heart of a gentleman to spend the abdomen of a gentleman, and think of the killing sentence as a “blockbuster” with confusion, throwing it out in a deliberate way, making the attacker psychologically uncomfortable.
They often adopt ridicule and irony, using almost vicious language, even at the expense of personal attacks, in an attempt to give the victim’s reputation and self-esteem a fatal blow.
This despicable tactic can often cause devastating consequences for young people with mature minds, people with low self-esteem, and psychologically vulnerable people. Therefore, it is extremely vigilant.
Even if such a trick is not direct to young people, it is also a great harm to young people, because he replaced the right and wrong, the cause of the uneasy factors, the basis of the discordant cooperation, maybe this kind of harm will happen in some way.Everyone.
Over time, such dark psychology has become a kind of “enterprise style”. That bad behavior will affect the young people’s thinking. In the end, they must pay for such behavior principles and suffer for life.
For example: He often hits you with very vicious language, saying, “You won’t do this, you won’t do that, you will be laughed at by others.
“Fourth, how to get along with people who have a serious shadowy mind?”
First, try to stay away from it. If it is bitten, expose it relentlessly.
Dealing with insidious people is indeed a life hardship that no one wants.
Some people think that it is safer to approach dark people with malicious insults and to approach them.
This kind of understanding is too naive, we need to know that the nature of the dark minded people is not tolerant of others.
When he overcomes the set goal, maybe the next goal is you!
Therefore, don’t be lucky, you must try to stay away.
If you are in chasing after it, like being bitten by a poisonous snake, you must take the initiative and make the strongest response in the first moment, expose it relentlessly, and resolutely crack down, make the world known to the world, and alert others!
Moreover, we must be mentally prepared.
People with dark minds generally have compulsive personality traits, and are unlikely to give up. As soon as the conditions are mature, they will change the form and wait for the counterattack, so we must argue!
Second, adjust cognition and expect to see your lofty and value in the dark mind of others.
If we pay attention, there are always people who will talk to us about the success of others and why.
If the winner is a beauty, they will say that her success was nothing more than winning with her own “body bomb”.
If the successful person is a man, they will say that his success was by means of deception or self-packaging.
In short, everything is said, psychologically it is not willing to accept the success of others!
When we meet such a sloppy person, but we don’t think so, and we don’t agree verbally, we will not be polluted by the dark minds of others.
When you encounter someone saying bad things about you, you just smile, then keep silent, try to shift the topic, and ignore it!
As the saying goes: “The gentleman is open-minded and the villain is long.
In this way, we are instead emphasizing the openness and sublime in our hearts.
In addition, the evildoers have widely surpassed the breakthrough and targeted those who are better than them. As long as we adjust our cognition, do their evil deeds just reset the value of the attacked themselves?
They generally do not attack people who are worse than them in every way!
Third, actively use the alternative incentives of people with dark minds.
If the attacked person goes down and falls into a state of weakness, the insidious person in the middle is pregnant!
It may cause the incident to calm down quickly, but the plot of the evildoer will succeed.
This is obviously not what we want to see. Evil has no negative consequences.
The positive way is to reciprocate the excitement of those who do evil by refocusing their careers and loving them more.
Because insidious people, destroying the reputation of those they hate too much is not the ultimate goal.
Their real purpose is to ruin your career and ruin your future!
There is nothing wrong with nothing, nothing comes from nothing, and there are potential markets in ancient and modern times. But these people who manipulated right and wrong, fearing that the world would not be chaotic, lost at the beginning. They lost control of their conscience and moral defense, and they lost power in the world.Lost helplessness.
People hiding in the dark will definitely “see the light die.”
When the *** is white and the evildoers are found out, they will be disgraced and do nothing!They thought that the Tibetan Mastiff was very tight, but they forgot the ancient saying “There is no impenetrable wall”!
If people do n’t know, unless they do nothing, their sinister actions cannot be traced out!
Of course, we have to respond moderately to people who have a serious dark mood, because dogs will jump over the wall!
If the stimulus is too strong, after conspiring to reveal the prototype, they will break the jar like a desperate, go to the front desk from the backstage, make a desperate attempt, take the risk, and use more intense and more terrifying means to fight with usThe dead net broke, and the result was both.
I thought that this uplifted them, wronged them, and it was not worth losing!
Not to mention the funeral of justice for evil, not what you and I want!